Today, Fri, Oct 30, i got an email from a guy near the South Bay. he said: “Hey, its (name deleted), was trying to c u tonight if i could. miss that Ass and head.” he was answering one of my ads that appeared earlier today. i looked up our text history. the last time we met up was in Feb. i texted him a few times after our last meet-up trying to hook up again but he did not reply to those.

today, i said to him, “hi, i haven’t heard from u in a very long time (Feb). i don’t do occasional hookups. once or twice a year does not interest me. if u aren’t gonna see me a couple times a month minimum, u need to get someone else.” hes got a really big dick. hes an aggressive good guy, but fair is fair. if hes not going to find the time to see me, why should i find the time to see him? i don’t care about excuses, that u have been out of town or too busy. nobody is that busy. those are laughable excuses. anybody can find an hour a month for sex. if u say u cant, then u shouldn’t be looking for sex.

now, if u are a hung black man needing a secret DL slut on the side, heres what u do: email your stats, a couple pix & tell me what u got planned for us. u must be hwp, ddf, bbc, over 5-foot-seven, prefer over 30, looking for regular only. bareback ok if u got a recent hiv- test. these are my edited pix. im 6four yrs, tall & athletic, shaved smooth body, hiv- in June, sane & totally dependable. i can see u afternoons or eves if u can host. if u cant, i can drive to u after dark in my rolling bedroom – its got great carpet, a queen size bed, pillows, blacked out windows, all the supplies we need & more. but know this, if u want me to be serious abt seeing u, then u need to hold up your end of the deal…otherwise i will totally drop u. if u are a serious guy, then u know what to do next.